Actually I can imagine another scenario.
She isnt actually married, and was flirting with Snarf as a bet with her friends.
The number and email she gave were not hers, and she was just covering for why the name on the email was different to the one she gave him.

Some poor woman got an email from Snarf, and either shit herself cause she now thinks she has a stalker, or she just thought it was one of those shitty spam emails that has random words in it (beloved, applauded, beg etc).