it's a little more convoluted than that, but I think 'all's well that ends well' is quite applicable in this instance. she and I were both in kinda shitty places in life and really had no business being with anyone at the time, least of all each other. we both received some sort of assistance since then in getting our shit together, and I honestly consider the matter closed. I mean, my wife and I talk to her today, and everyone gets along just fine. it was a regrettable period of time, but people make dumb decisions and do silly things. I'm not going to blame anyone for the shit that went down, but it's definitely something to learn from.
