Being monogamous is not hard, so I don't see why so many people have a hard time with it. My grandparents have been monogamous for 60 some odd years, my parents have been monogamous for 31 years and I'm engaged and can't imagine living life with someone other than my fiance at all, whether he's alive of dead. I think that if you feel that you're in love with two people, it is in fact lust bcz being in love with someone is wanting to see them happy and I don't believe someone could be truly happy sharing their husband/wife with someone else; I know I couldn't be. Intimacy is something that can only go between 2 people and not more without getting twisted.
