MeM, I think maybe your being sarcastic. Anyway, I was stating someone's viewpoint from a book I had read about family curses/generational curses. And that was the writer's opinion. I found it interesting from a heterosexual viewpoint, and as a quasi-christian. the interest came out of the admission/consent that there was biology involved..rather than choice. Again, if you are shaking your head at my post...I shouldn't have mentioned it and I was being insensitive and not thinking about the words I was using and their effect on the feelings and perceptions of others. I know this isn't a PC place and I know we can say what we want...but I pick few fights with people and try to limit any mean-spiritedness to simple buffoonary, shenanigans and generally stupid posts. When I'm writing serious posts I usually don't reply without thinking through my post..which I clearly didn't. So, if anyone was offended or incensed by my post I am sorry and apologize....seriously.