The trick is that many people who don't condone homosexuality haven't figured out yet that nobody's gonna listen to someone who doesn't show any regard for them as a person. As I've said many, many times in this thread, that doesn't mean rubber-stamping everything someone else does, but it does mean offering kindness and understanding rather than condemning a person for their actions instead of simply opposing their actions. It's just hard for people to find that balance in there.