Here's a panel discussion from a few days back on the PBS News Hour, where four editorial page editors from major newspapers across the country, discuss recent court rulings regarding gay marriage :
John Diaz of the San Francisco Chronicle;
Bruce Dold of the Chicago Tribune;
Michael Ryan of the Augusta Chronicle in Georgia;
and Virginia Buckingham of the Boston Herald.

I find it interesting to observe a panel of what are arguably some of the most informed on the issue have to say, from both sides.

http://www.pbs.org/newshour/bb/media/july-dec03/marriage_12-4.html

They make many of the same points both sides have here in this topic.