Speaking for myself, I don't require calming.

I don't mind debating an issue with people who don't share my views. I do mind answering the same question over and over and over. And then still being told I'm intolerant and don't make sense.
As I've said repeatedly, the intolerant ones are the small minority of gays, who want to impose their views of "gay marriage" and related issues on the overwhelming majority.
Rendering the clear verses regarding homosexuality in the Old Testament and New Testament of the Bible a "hate crime", as they are now in Canada, as gays and liberals want them to be in the United States.

And then have the audacity to say "well, this doesn't affect you".
Heck yes it does !

Any questions ? Just read my posts over the last 26 pages, where I've explained my views abundantly and more than patiently.
But geez, when do I have the right to say my views are being ignored and glossed over? I think as often as I've stated my perspective, I've earned that right.

The bottom line is, gays will believe what allows them to pursue their chosen lifestyle, despite any evidence to the contrary.