It's not a matter of missing the point, I just don't see where anybody is saying their life is more awful than yours. The point here is respecting the deceased wishes. In this case they were not. I think more people reading a post like that would think it's wrong that estranged relatives essentially had more rights than the surviving spouse. Legislation can be passed to fix that.

If your getting beat up do you just passively lay there taking it or do you try to defend yourself? Gay's are quite simply seeking to defend themselves like I'm sure you naturally do.

Fair play!