Our differences in this topic appear, to me, to be paradigmatic in the sense of Thomas Kuhn and his theories about scientific revolutions.

We're all pointing to what we feel are the relevant issues while believing the other(s) are focusing on irrelevant or less-relevant issues.

To me, marriage should be based not on gender or race or religion or ethnicity, but on number. What's crucial in a marriage is that it's between two and only two people.


We all wear a green carnation.