Regarding the analysis by several here of Beardguy and Snarf, I disagree on both.
Beardguy was a really nice guy, and that kindness and appreciation for things came out in all his posts. Not everything he posted was interesting to me, but the spirit behind it made it more interesting to me.
I liked having him here.
And the people who drove him away, I regarded well before he was driven off as rude, vulgar, cynical and unpleasant assholes. The type who enjoy ruining others' happiness.
I'd gladly take a hundred thousand Beardguys in exchange for any one of you. but just through sheer unimaginative harassment, you made him want to leave. And even in that you actually lost, because as Beardguy said to me himself privately, he could tolerate your pussy shit forever, he just chose to leave and not waste his time and energy with your collective pettiness. Key operative word: he CHOSE to leave, none of you idiots drove him away.
Regarding the vindictive prying into his personal life: so what if he lied and said his x-boyfriend is dead. I'm sympathetic to the fact that it was difficult breakup for him, and in essence, the guy is dead to Beardguy, and is out of Beardguy's life. I see it as a difficult chapter in his life, and that's how he was able to deal with it. Which still doesn't make Beardguy any less of a nice guy. And still ten times better a human being than most of you.
I finally read this bit.
You really are deluded arent you?
Simple fact is, no matter what he said about leaving to you in private, he did not choose to leave, he felt he had to leave because a bunch of people called him on his shit, and he started claiming to be having heart problems because of it.
Its easy to say he could take "our pussy shit" forever, but the fact that he reckoned it was killing him, and he ran away, shows he didnt chose to leave on his own terms.
Saying in publuc that its killing him and in private saying something else is quite laughable, as surely it should be the other way round if he wants people to think he had won anything.
Also, on the subject of his lover, you say its vindictive prying, but I say that it would only be prying aif we had gone looking for this without him first telling us about his "loss", and would only be vindictive if he hadnt lied to try to get a sympathy vote.
You say his break up was tough, and thats why he did it, but that to me does not justify trying to get unwarranted sympathy out of people, not only by lying that his lover had died, but even going as far as to make up a cause of death.
He was trying to portray himself as a victim of life, when in reality, for all me we know, he split with his boyfriend because he had been a cunt.
I mean, its not like he is above lying, so who's to say he hadnt lied to his boyfriend about something, and got called on it.
If he told you why they split, how do you know he told you the truth?
He already lied once about what happened, so who's to say he didnt lie to you as well?
Your defense of him is as transparent as your defense of Snarf, as neither has any substance to them to back up your so called "facts" of why they are such wonderful people.
