Snarf is a lost cause. We've tried to help him ...
rex, in your case that is seriously one big fucking, look it up in the dictionary, example of "the blind leading the blind." As near as I can tell, your basically Snarf with a few more years of failure under your belt and the resulting self loathing and rage that came as a result.
So, unless you're intending to be a cautionary tale, sort of a ghost of future failure, how could you help him?