Well, it's been changed (the BBQ) to my home...and after hearing that, he had no problem saying yes. So, I'll chalk that one up to being weirded out because of it being at another location other than my home.

SO...he'll be coming over with the boys and I told him that they're free to bring over whatever toys (but not their bikes) they want to play with since my yard (front and back) are extremely large and the probability of them hitting anything close to the house is very nill. The front yard is about 250x20-25 feet and the backyard, I don't know exactly/aproximately how large it is, but it's large. [wink] But when Pat and I talked about it last night, we both kind of declared that the boys will be bored in no-time flat. [wink]

SO...this coming Sunday...Pat will be meeting my family...(as will the boys). I guess this is the big test to see if he still wants to see me. God knows...my uncles take some getting used to.