OKay... here's my opinion and theory...
I am fairly horny. But right now, I am not looking, because I am writing and I have my mind focused on finishing the project. With that in mind, I don't look at the ladies' fine, tight asses and their perky pretty boobs as much as usual. I also look at faces too. Eyes are actually the first thing I look at, but I wanted it to be known, I look at da butt if they are in front of me or walk by...
NOW, being single... ANY WOMAN is an option. That is before you see the ring on her finger and the kid in the carriage or whatever. So basically, it is a matter of filtering. You know, like searching through the paragraphs for grammatical errors. "Ah, she's taken. Oh, she's old. She had a boyfried. She is a he."
That is the thing about being single. You are allowed to be attracted to anyone and can masturbate to anything without being guilty of cheating or having bad feelings. Because hey, there is no one in your life.
Now, keep in mind, I never had a serious relationship.
But lets say you meet the woman you perfectly trust and she trusts you.. Is she as hot as you want? Does she meet your physical desires? For some guys that happens... In most cases, as with women, there is that thing about "settling". You meet someone and you connect. Not exactly what you thought, but close enough.
Sure she doesn't dress in kinky lingerie or take it in the ass or love to suck cock night and day, but she will do half of those things if you ask her nicely. Maybe you luck out. Who knows. So she makes you kind of horny, and other women out there, with voracious appetites, but not the personality of the woman your with, kind of appeal to that naughty boy. And part of you desires that woman, and you kind of wish the woman you were with was that bad girl in bed. You know, a sexually aggressive dynamo. But that she worships your cock and no one else's.
Yeah, I think that is how it works.
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