Fortunately I had a great sex life prior to and after marriage. I love the thrill of the hunt but there is much to be said for finding that special someone as well. I can remember some dry spells as well and horniness was a very tangible thing that became all consuming. These brief periods would either end up with a very unsatisfying quickie or a very torrid night of passion that made all of the waiting quite worthwhile. All these factors make your question a hard one to answer but I will interject that your mind is your greatest sexual organ whether you're with someone else or by your horny lonesome! Utilize that mind correctly and brain numbing, ball draining sex is sure to follow!