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Originally posted by allan1:
Yes, a guy can hang out with a female & not have any sexual thoughts....it's rare, but it can be done. Let me give you an example, I have a friend at work & she's probally the best friend I have there. We talk a lot, we hang out, on Sundays we go to lunch together. That's it....there's nothing sexual whatsoever in my mind when we hang (ok, she's also 17 & that'd be like.....ewwwww, but that's beside the point). I look at her as if she were a sister that I never had. Now,maybe that's not the best example, but it is an example of how sex isn't always the driving force behind a guys thoughts....or at least mine anyways.

Allan...that's cool and all...but it doesn't help me at all! :lol:

Thanks though! :)