I think you're a spaz.

Ask her out. "Who dares wins." (that's the motto of the Special Air Service, but its equally applicable to getting laid.)

At worst she'll say no and you can move onto a new target for your nightly fantasy ejaculation.

Ok, you're not really a spaz, but instead of going out with her to grab a coffee, you're sitting on the internet talking to us...

...I change my mind. You are a spaz.