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Originally posted by Bianca:
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Originally posted by La Machine:
Bianca! (and all the other girls)

Okay now I need advice....

So lately I've been exchanging e-mails between this girl I used to know waaay back in high school. We always kind of crushed but her brother always got in the way of it, so nothing ever happened. Well she asked me to call her and I did and we caught up and made plans for another time and she'll IM me and the whole shebang. But I feel weird. I feel like she still might've got creeped out or something. I don't know. Maybe she's just keeping her distance or something. This is the only girl that I can never get comfortable around! It's really fucking annoying! I act like a goddam spaz or something! I'm NOT A FUCKING SPAZZ !! [AAAHHHH!!!]

.........alright what do you think? In my head or what?
So, from what you said...it sounds like you made tentative plans on the phone but are waiting for her to get back to you with the specifics. Only she hasn't gotten back to you yet, right?

Well, if it's only been a few days...I wouldn't panic yet. Maybe she's just busy with work and is waiting to get back to you when things are less hectic.

If it's been a little longer, maybe you could just send her a short e-mail just saying "Hi" and that if she would like to get together and have drinks or coffee to just give you a ring or e-mail you back.

Just put a subtle hint back in her head and maybe that'll jumpstart things for ya...and make you seem less "anxious." :)
Well it's only been one day. So I guess I'm overeeacting a bit. But it's just that we've always had this problem where we're about to meet up, and either her brother, or one of my "friends" (bros before ho's guys!) will get in the way and we wind up not talking to each other for another four years!
Guess I'm a little paranoid is all. [eh... i dunno... ]