Lab-genitor, I understand where you're coming from. Not only am I straight, but I also have a conservative upbringing. I was initially uncomfortable with the "gayness" of this group. But, I concluded that it was just their version of the locker-room talk that the straight kids did. The only thing I know to do is tune out the uncomfortable topics, and post on the topics I find interesting, and start my own when I can think of something interesting.