I agree with most of ya. I go to the bar with my friends to hang out, burn off some steam after work, whatever. I go to clubs (very infrequently) to dance and get picked up on. The few times I've gone I usually end up dancing by myself. I go to dance. Last time I went I went with friends (both male and female) and that was fun. Danced with three guys at the same time (all the girls hated me) but had a ton of fun. But I wasn't on the prowl, just enjoying myself.

To have a lasting relationship from someone you meet in a bar or club...I just don't see it happeneing.