in regards to polanski, your comments are continually and completely accepting and entirely dismissive. i can't believe you can follow "i accept what he did" with defense of his actions.

a convicted rapist. a convincted pedophile. a fugitive. at what point, and to what extent, do they flash in your mind as "bad things"? lemme ask you this, cap'n quote:

if you shopped at a deli cuz they had the best frickin sammidges in the world, and then found out that the guy who made them was a convicted rapist and pedophile, who, years ago, left his country to avoid jail time... would you still shop at the deli?

what if it was a house-call plumber? or a banker? a gas station employee? a teacher? your daughter's teacher?

and this statement makes me fearful of you:
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Originally posted by Animalman:
Is it really wrong to fall in love with somebody who considers you a father figure

falling in love with someone you not only consider a father figure, but refered to as "father" is unhealthy. the "father" acting on that is wrong.

to not see that is disturbing.