For better or worse I can't do the No More Mr Nice Guy routine, everytime I try it doesn't work.
Oh ask some of my pateints and they'll say Im a right bastard, but thats because I have to gain control of the unit and get structure back in their life (even still anytime a patient returns I am generally the first one they ask to see). On the other hand alot of the patients really enjoy working with me and call to tell me how they are.
When it comes to coworkers sometimes I get pegged as a "bully" as one person said at work, but later they find out I just want to get things done right, which is what that same person later said.

So I gotta be loved.....