A) I think it takes a whole lot longer to heal the longer you've gotten accustomed to a situation. It's much harder to break up with someone you've been with for five years than it is when you've dated someone for five weeks. I've heard that you're supposed to wait half the time the relationship lasted before it's OK to start dating again, although I can't remember where....so I guess that's the expected time to heal? I'm not sure. I don't think the heart ever forgets....you just get used to being without.
Q) Can you love two people equally?
