I agree with Krazy. Love isn't something based on our own primal urges, like lust is. It needs to be nurtured and grow, hopefully hand-in-hand with the person who you love as well. The "love at first sight" concept has always unnerved me, especially with the divorce rate today being what it is. People are rushing too quickly into a relationship, trusting in "love at first sight" when all they're really experiencing is lust. I can't look at someone and love them. I have to know them. To know someone (and to accept what it is that you know about them) is, in my opinon, love.