When, exactly, did we "have" the Muslim world?

During the 1970s, when they attacked the Olympics and took 50 Americans hostage in Iran (after we helped depose the Shah for them)?

During the 1980s, when they were blowing up discos, marine barricks and airplanes?

During the 1990s, when they attacked the WTC for the first time, blew up the USS Cole and plotted for 9/11?

Maybe it's time to stop worrying about their grabbing their hearts and minds and start focusing on the other end.