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Hey Uschi, you wanna hook up? I mean, after Star leaves?
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Sure.
I mentioned your possible plans of visiting Colorado early next year to Julie and she's all excited.
...if you do come, I apologise in advance. My family will harass the hell out of you. Even when I've dated, I've never brought any "boys" home to meet them. And they're all married. And will get really excited. 
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I don't find it hard to be on my own.
Everyday I have a mental check list of things that I want to get done and I go to bed having finished maybe half of them, because there's never enough time. I value the long, unbroken silences that are the staple of the single life.
Relationships can be fun too. None of mine have lasted for very long but I quite liked being part of a couple. You have to give up some of your freedoms, but you get back different things in return. You get an intimate view of the world as another person experiences it.
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Don't act stupider than you look. Anyone with a "boring" life of doing the same thing every week will get sick of it eventually. If you have someone else there you have another variable. Someone to add new stuff to your life and help find more interesting things to do.
And you're making this argument off of the assumption that every person alone does the same thing every week? Also that every time two people are grouped together that they in fact add something to eachother?
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Sure there's sacrifice in relationships, but you're discounting everything a relationship adds to you. You might have to stop with 7% of the things you do, but another person opens up 93% of their life to your disposal too. Didn't you ever share your toys? When you share you personally get less of the physical object but you get companionship, a playmate, a conversation, new ideas you'd never have thought of, different perspectives, etc.
I get enough of that from messageboards and all around acquaintences who I meet on bar stools. We exchange info and in the end, we didn't lose anything valuable or become attached to the point where we'd drag eachother down....Except maybe your anonymity (unless you lie about your name), but that's not the point. Point is, that sacrifice for campanionship is fruitless when you get right down to it. I can absorb those elements mentioned and more from elsewhere by different means (as they come up that is). And as it stands, that's a much more desirable option than a security risk that big.
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...and I thought MoTA was as sad an excuse for a human being as their could be. You shame him, Pariah.
Well, considering your standards, that be a good thing. 
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And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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Why, Non, do you feel that you need to be in a relationship, exactly.
That's a hard question to answer. Too many answers, is why.
I simply LIKE it is the easiest answer. Who doesn't like feeling like they belong to something greater than themself? Pariah excluded, since he's obviously attained a level of personal contentment rivaling celebate monks...
I enjoy my time and my freedom and the ability to do whatever I want, whenever I want it, but I would gladly trade it in order to share that time with someone who cares about me, wants to be with me, and genuinly LIKES me as a person.
I like conversation. I like it when someone listens to what I have to say. And if I'm dating a girl I obviously have an interest in what she has to say, too. Otherwise I wouldn't be dating her. Talking is fun. Debating is fun (arguing is not). I don't care what anyone thinks or says, you CAN learn something new from a significant other on a daily basis if you WANT to.
I like being to touch and be touched. I like being physical. It doesn't have to be sex, and I'm not a touchy-feely guy, but I like affection. I like it when a girl makes a move to put her hand against my back, or snuggle up against me. I like it when a girl wants to hold my hand. Or make out. I like it when I turn a girl on. What sane straight man wouldn't?
Knowing that someone has a personal interest in ME personally is the biggest thing, I think. Having a girl fall in love with you is an amazing thing. Spending time alone, pursuing activities and pleasures on your own time, with only you to enjoy them... That's all well and good. That's IMPORTANT. But... in the end... It's just you. Or you and you're  buddies. How fulfilling.
I like to share... I WANT to share. Unfortunately, the whole point of my initial lament WAS... I don't really have anything worthwhile to share.
Yet.
Maybe I will find someone who doesn't care about all my faults... But I don't expect anyone to.
Non
P.S. You're right, Pariah. Just because two people are together doesn't mean they're happy. But I have no sympathy for those people because no one's forcing them to STAY in that relationship. Unless it's b/c of financial reasons or a kid(s)... no one HAS to be in a bad relationship. That's just laziness on their part. Break up with the fucking bitch if you don't like her. Dump the asshole if he's treating you like shit. Anyone who can't follow that logic has one too many chromosomes.
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I like being to touch and be touched. I like being physical. It doesn't have to be sex, and I'm not a touchy-feely guy, but I like affection. I like it when a girl makes a move to put her hand against my back, or snuggle up against me. I like it when a girl wants to hold my hand. Or make out. I like it when I turn a girl on. What sane straight man wouldn't?
Eh, aren't you ever scared that she would be just getting into better placement to stick a knife n your back or sumthin'? Or perhaps she's just leading you on, so later she can humiliate you for some reason? 
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P.S. You're right, Pariah. Just because two people are together doesn't mean they're happy. But I have no sympathy for those people because no one's forcing them to STAY in that relationship. Unless it's b/c of financial reasons or a kid(s)... no one HAS to be in a bad relationship. That's just laziness on their part. Break up with the fucking bitch if you don't like her. Dump the asshole if he's treating you like shit. Anyone who can't follow that logic has one too many chromosomes.
Okay, fine. You kinda went off tangent with my point, but I do agree with you.
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I like conversation. I like it when someone listens to what I have to say. And if I'm dating a girl I obviously have an interest in what she has to say, too. Otherwise I wouldn't be dating her. Talking is fun. Debating is fun (arguing is not). I don't care what anyone thinks or says, you CAN learn something new from a significant other on a daily basis if you WANT to.
This is the biggest problem I have with meeting a woman. Too many of them want to fit in and agree with everything, or they are too stupid to hold a halfway decent conversation. Hell, I'd even date an unattractive woman if she was a good conversationalist.
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Star's hot and a good conversationalist. The Double Whammy!  Damn me all you want, Joe!
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This is the biggest problem I have with meeting a woman. Too many of them want to fit in and agree with everything, or they are too stupid to hold a halfway decent conversation.
Exactly where do you find these women? Certainly a few must hold opposing views about something.
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Some do have opposing views. The difference being that we can discuss them in a polite and respectable manner. Its really hard to find a woman like that. You don't meet them at bars or most social places, I usually find them at work or work related places.
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I see. Actually, I understand. I shouldn't write "I see" unless I want Pariah to explain how wrong I am.
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Hey Uschi, you wanna hook up? I mean, after Star leaves?
Hey!
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Heh heh...nice. Suh-MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTH. 
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You know you're the only one for me!
This week.
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He's such a pimp. 
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I'm gonna have to go with Pariah on this one, mostly.
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He's such a pimp.
yea...i only get 5%
And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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With incentives, depending on how well you perform each task.
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And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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how about profit sharing?
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And, to be fair, one of my favorite friends there is blind and I take every opportunity available to make fun of that and we're still friends. That guy never fit there. He never got the spirit of the RKMBs. We're gonna keep an eye on the obits, see if he finally left or if he really did have a heart attack.
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Well, looking at Robot's track record, you must be making out with six figures, what with that 5% + profit share.
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I'm gonna have to go with Pariah on this one, mostly.
Dont know if I exactly agree with him but he doesnt need to be crucified....
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I wouldn't date a woman who didn't let me eat chocolate.
Matter of fact I'm eating Reece's peanut butter cups right now.
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