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Originally posted by Bianca:
Ha!
Some idiot offered me $50 to sleep with him. ![[no no no]](graemlins/nono.gif) I looked at him like he lost his mind...
$50 indeed....! I was insulted! ![[AAAHHHH!!!]](graemlins/aahhh.gif)
Ok, ok. Have it your way. $75?
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#38567
2003-01-09 6:58 PM
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Originally posted by thedoctor:
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Originally posted by Bianca:
Ha!
Some idiot offered me $50 to sleep with him. I looked at him like he lost his mind...
$50 indeed....! I was insulted!
Ok, ok. Have it your way. $75?
![[you sunnuva...]](images/icons/mad.gif)
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#38568
2003-01-09 7:00 PM
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HA! :lol: very funny doctor
Hey i have a question.
Let's say you're in a club or a place of dance; what if a guy fairly handsome, doesn't turn you off, comes up behind you and starts dancing with you? Do you push him away? If so, what are the circumstances where you would dance with him? Do you have to be alone? Does he have to say something to you? Does he have to buy a drink for your cheap ass? :) What?
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#38569
2003-01-09 7:01 PM
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I'll gladly offer the sum of......wait.....I can't put a price on it,You're worth more than that.
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#38570
2003-01-09 7:04 PM
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2003-01-09 7:17 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
Let's say you're in a club or a place of dance; what if a guy fairly handsome, doesn't turn you off, comes up behind you and starts dancing with you? Do you push him away? If so, what are the circumstances where you would dance with him? Do you have to be alone? Does he have to say something to you? Does he have to buy a drink for your cheap ass? :) What?
If someone just starts freakin' with me...I don't care who he is, that's just plain rude. If that happens, then I just give him "the look" and turn away or move to a different spot on the dance floor. It is called "personal space" for a reason you know...
Being asked is always nice.
But, if it's someone I know...then it's cool to just jump in.
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#38572
2003-01-09 7:22 PM
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Fair enough.
But......let's say it's like three in the morning, the place is kicking like crazy. Everyone is drunk or fucked up in some way shape or form. And I mean the crowd is like butt to butt, ass to elbow tight.
In a case like that, skin contact is like the rule. Are you really gonna blame a guy if he bumps into you and starts moving with you to the music. Most of the time he won't be able to say anything to you anyway cause the music is so damn loud.
and of couse, I consent that eye-contact is a must of course. It is just plain rude to jump on top of a girl when she can't even see you.
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#38573
2003-01-09 7:37 PM
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Originally posted by La Machine:
Fair enough.
But......let's say it's like three in the morning, the place is kicking like crazy. Everyone is drunk or fucked up in some way shape or form. And I mean the crowd is like butt to butt, ass to elbow tight.
In a case like that, skin contact is like the rule. Are you really gonna blame a guy if he bumps into you and starts moving with you to the music. Most of the time he won't be able to say anything to you anyway cause the music is so damn loud.
Well, usually when someone wants to say "excuse me" after bumping into you...you can tell he/she said something like that. That's all I would expect if some dude were to accidentally bump into me.
However, if he wished to continue to "dance on my ass" since it's so damn packed in there, permission is still a good idea unless you want a heel ground into your toes or a strategically placed elbow.
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#38574
2003-01-09 7:47 PM
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Originally posted by Bianca:
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Originally posted by La Machine:
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Well, usually when someone wants to say "excuse me" after bumping into you...you can tell he/she said something like that. That's all I would expect if some dude were to accidentally bump into me.
However, if he wished to continue to "dance on my ass" since it's so damn packed in there, permission is still a good idea unless you want a heel ground into your toes or a strategically placed elbow.
Okay, but you do realize that no one goes up to a girl in a place like that and goes "Hey, I was wondering...uuh....I was just thinking...uhh..can I uhh....can I uh.... dance on your ass?"
That's why I mention eye contact. Everything is subtext from my experiences. You say "excuse me" to the girl, then maybe you brush your arm against hers or something, very slightly. She turns if she's interested, or she just doesn't look at you if she's not. If she is, you both look at each other. Then usually the guy is supposed to do something like gently pull her by the arm towards him or twirl her into him or something like that. Then it's either a "hey" or a "what's goin on?" and you're both off, freakin to it.
At least this is the courting gestures I have witnessed.
And that's funny, I never witnessed a heel to the foot or anything. You ever really do that? Must be some real Cassanovas out there. :)
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#38575
2003-01-09 7:52 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
Okay, but you do realize that no one goes up to a girl in a place like that and goes "Hey, I was wondering...uuh....I was just thinking...uhh..can I uhh....can I uh.... dance on your ass?"
That's why I mention eye contact. Everything is subtext from my experiences. You say "excuse me" to the girl, then maybe you brush your arm against hers or something, very slightly. She turns if she's interested, or she just doesn't look at you if she's not. If she is, you both look at each other. Then usually the guy is supposed to do something like gently pull her by the arm towards him or twirl her into him or something like that. Then it's either a "hey" or a "what's goin on?" and you're both off, freakin to it.
At least this is the courting gestures I have witnessed.
And that's funny, I never witnessed a heel to the foot or anything. You ever really do that? Must be some real Cassanovas out there. :)
What you described would be cool with me.
And personally... I don't frequent places (for dancing) that are so packed that you could hardly move...it's just not my bag and not as much fun.
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#38576
2003-01-09 8:02 PM
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I admit it's got its drawbacks.(ie actually wanting to meet someone) But come on, a meat market of drunk horny people, right before your very own eyes.... who can't get into that? ![[wink]](images/icons/wink.gif)
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#38577
2003-01-09 8:14 PM
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2003-01-09 8:21 PM
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2003-01-09 8:55 PM
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#38580
2003-01-09 11:04 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
And the only girl who ever told me she never had an orgasm.... wound up having one immediately. So forgive me if I tend to think that's girls wantin to play some more of those guerilla warfare tactics.
You know, this is what I don't understand. Why is it when a girl say she hasn't had an orgasm--ever--you guys assume she has to be lying when she has one with you? Could it be that--unbeknownst to you--you may actually have some skillz? That you man actually know what it takes to make a woman cum? Gentlemen, Gentlemen....we woman are complicated things. And requires much effort to please. I don't have to tell yall this. But I shouldn't also have to tell you that a lot of the time--too often--that women are left holding the short end of stick. Half way there and hoping, but hoping for what? You're done, finished, kaput--through! And most think thats completly perfect. It's that "I've got mine --too bad if you didn't get your" theory that got women hugging up to other women. The man never wants to acknowledge that it could be their fault and IS in a lot of cases. Pride? Sure--because a man knows he can give a woman that same pitiful sex, and if she complains and makes him feel bad about himself, then he can leave and find someone else who knows nothing about his skils and so on and so on......
WHOA..........that sound bitter....and off track.......okay, here we go.
What I ment to say was this: Don't assume a girl is lying if she say she's never came, but you manage to give her one. I'm sure that there are those that do, god forbid, but most of us have never experienced the joy. So if you manage to make her pop one, give yourself a pat on the back and give her somemore!
End of rant.
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#38581
2003-01-09 11:14 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
And the only girl who ever told me she never had an orgasm.... wound up having one immediately.
Is that even possible(to have two kids and not have had an orgasm)?
I remember one time I was dancing with this girl and just out of the blue her knees buckled and she fell down. I had no idea what happened, and somehow it didn't dawn onto me until the next morning(she didn't bring it up again, I'm assuming out of embarrassment) that she'd had an orgasm.
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#38582
2003-01-09 11:23 PM
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Eh, I have no "skillz", I just think some girls are more easily stimulated than others. Simple as that, really.
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#38583
2003-01-09 11:25 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Kimi:
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Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
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Originally posted by TK-069:
Just how many orgasms can one woman have?
I don't know...I'm still waiting for the FIRST one.
Girl, you need to get yourself a battery operated friend...it's a no-miss, sure-fire situation. And it definitely cures insomnia, too! ![[biiiig grin]](images/icons/grin.gif)
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Originally posted by Bianca:
I'm sorry honey.
You wanna borrow my jack rabbit...?
Hell, i have a few friends but they just don't do it for me. Maybe I need to watch--you know, see what I'm doing woring? I'd be delighted if you two lovely ladies let me 'sit' in on a session. Hell, I'll bring the drinks! :lol:
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#38584
2003-01-10 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
Hell, i have a few friends but they just don't do it for me. Maybe I need to watch--you know, see what I'm doing woring? I'd be delighted if you two lovely ladies let me 'sit' in on a session. Hell, I'll bring the drinks! :lol:
Well, get my liquored up then woman...! :lol:
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#38585
2003-01-10 12:19 AM
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Party Time!!
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#38586
2003-01-10 1:10 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Animalman:
Is that even possible(to have two kids and not have had an orgasm)?
It's quite possible. What's an orgasm have to do with conception? Thats just like saying a girl that's been raped can't get pregnate, and we all know that it happens.
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#38587
2003-01-10 2:08 AM
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Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
It's quite possible. What's an orgasm have to do with conception? Thats just like saying a girl that's been raped can't get pregnate, and we all know that it happens.
I was being facetious. I'm sure it's not impossible, just improbable, at least, in my expereince. I've never actually met a sexually active girl who's said she's never orgasmed(doesn't mean they haven't, just that they don't talk about it).
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#38588
2003-01-10 2:13 AM
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Originally posted by Animalman:
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Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
It's quite possible. What's an orgasm have to do with conception? Thats just like saying a girl that's been raped can't get pregnate, and we all know that it happens.
I was being facetious. I'm sure it's not impossible, just improbable, at least, in my expereince. I've never actually met a sexually active girl who's said she's never orgasmed(doesn't mean they haven't, just that they don't talk about it).
Key words: "that SAID they never orgasmed". I have many friends who have never had an orgasm, and truth be told most women don't have orgasms from plain old sex; most needs the hand, mouth, or battery operated friend to help out. I admit, I fall into that category. Just a fact of life...women have to work a little harder to get there...
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#38589
2003-01-10 2:22 AM
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I'm sure some women do. Most of the women I know are just on the other end of the orgasmic spectrum.
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#38590
2003-01-11 2:15 AM
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Average woman takes 12 to 14 min. to orgasm. Average man takes 2-3 min. Do the math. Not that I'm in that demographic or anything. heh. ![[gulp!]](gulp.gif)
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#38591
2003-01-11 2:18 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
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Originally posted by La Machine:
And the only girl who ever told me she never had an orgasm.... wound up having one immediately. So forgive me if I tend to think that's girls wantin to play some more of those guerilla warfare tactics.
You know, this is what I don't understand. Why is it when a girl say she hasn't had an orgasm--ever--you guys assume she has to be lying when she has one with you? Could it be that--unbeknownst to you--you may actually have some skillz? That you man actually know what it takes to make a woman cum? Gentlemen, Gentlemen....we woman are complicated things. And requires much effort to please. I don't have to tell yall this. But I shouldn't also have to tell you that a lot of the time--too often--that women are left holding the short end of stick. Half way there and hoping, but hoping for what? You're done, finished, kaput--through! And most think thats completly perfect. It's that "I've got mine --too bad if you didn't get your" theory that got women hugging up to other women. The man never wants to acknowledge that it could be their fault and IS in a lot of cases. Pride? Sure--because a man knows he can give a woman that same pitiful sex, and if she complains and makes him feel bad about himself, then he can leave and find someone else who knows nothing about his skils and so on and so on......
WHOA..........that sound bitter....and off track.......okay, here we go.
What I ment to say was this: Don't assume a girl is lying if she say she's never came, but you manage to give her one. I'm sure that there are those that do, god forbid, but most of us have never experienced the joy. So if you manage to make her pop one, give yourself a pat on the back and give her somemore!
End of rant.
Well thanks for the vote of confidence, Kori. I don't always assume that a girl is lying or anything when she says that. But this one....I wouldn't have put it past her.
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#38592
2003-01-11 7:28 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
Average woman takes 12 to 14 min. to orgasm. Average man takes 2-3 min. Do the math.
Not that I'm in that demographic or anything. heh.
Sure JQ, suuuuuuure.... ![[woooOOOOoooo!]](graemlins/smilewoo.gif)
I also think you need to do somemore math! ![[eh?]](images/icons/confused.gif)
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#38593
2003-01-11 9:26 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
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Originally posted by La Machine:
Average woman takes 12 to 14 min. to orgasm. Average man takes 2-3 min. Do the math.
Not that I'm in that demographic or anything. heh.
Sure JQ, suuuuuuure....
I also think you need to do somemore math!
Why? I'm agreeing with you ![[izzat so?]](graemlins/zatso.gif)
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#38594
2003-01-11 10:20 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
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Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
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Originally posted by La Machine:
Average woman takes 12 to 14 min. to orgasm. Average man takes 2-3 min. Do the math.
Not that I'm in that demographic or anything. heh.
Sure JQ, suuuuuuure....
I also think you need to do somemore math!
Why? I'm agreeing with you
Because 12-14 minutes seems off. Try 30 - 40 minutes--if not longer! Hey, women has all the endurance after all.
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#38595
2003-01-12 9:18 PM
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uhhhh I don't know where you heard THAT. But 12-14 is the average. Now I'm sure they're are girls out there that take a long time (and God knows I've met some of them!) but that's definitely the number I remember from various articles and anatomy classes.
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2003-01-15 9:15 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
uhhhh
I don't know where you heard THAT. But 12-14 is the average. Now I'm sure they're are girls out there that take a long time (and God knows I've met some of them!) but that's definitely the number I remember from various articles and anatomy classes.
I'm sure you have a very good anatomy class textbook, but everybody is really different when it comes to having an orgasm.......it truly is all mental.......its all about being comfortable and letting yourself have one.........I think it takes longer statistically for women because they have a more "intrusive" role in sex.......
its important to not only feel comfortable with the other person but with yourself and your own body as well.
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#38597
2003-01-16 6:55 AM
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That's why i said "average".
Is anyone reading I'm writing here???
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2003-01-16 6:56 AM
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That's why i said "average".
Is anyone reading I'm writing here???
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2003-01-16 8:52 PM
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Perhaps I have poorly articulated myself..........What I'm trying to say is that the word "average" has no meaning here......Everyone is different.....I've met girls who go in only a few minutes and some that don't go at all.
There is not an average that suits "most" women. I really think everyone is different
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2003-01-17 2:31 AM
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And every girl differes with each experience. There have been times when it took me only a couple of minutes and other times with that same person has taken at least 45 minutes. It depends on mood, stress, atmosphere, a million different things.
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2003-01-17 4:35 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Sonhaven:
Perhaps I have poorly articulated myself..........What I'm trying to say is that the word "average" has no meaning here......Everyone is different.....I've met girls who go in only a few minutes and some that don't go at all.
There is not an average that suits "most" women. I really think everyone is different
Oh I see what you're saying.
But even though as you (and Kimi) point out, everyone is different, and every individual has seperate experiences, you still don't think that out of ALL the orgasms in the world, there is a common denominator?
I mean we're all biological engines made from essentially the same stuff. There are certain things about the major biological functions that are just universal. It's univeral that a female mammal has the TENDENCY to climax after a male does. It's not LAW but as numerous studies have shown (Jesus I hate you guys for making me talk like this), there IS a pattern therefore there IS a mean therefore correlation therefore: voila: an average.
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#38602
2003-01-17 4:36 AM
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But I do agree with you guys that environment plays a key role in a person's sexual persona, don't get me wrong.
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#38603
2003-01-17 5:00 AM
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Gobdamn, all this technical talk about orgasms is gonna make me never want to have one again!
ME, of all the people! The horniest dude postin' today!
We gotta think of more insightful, brutally honest and disgusting questions to ask the ladies.
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2003-01-17 10:18 AM
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How about this TK..... So ar any of you ladies interested in having an orgasm ![[cool]](images/icons/cool.gif) huh....huh Damn I'm not smooth
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2003-01-19 2:26 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Sonhaven:
How about this TK.....
So ar any of you ladies interested in having an orgasm
huh....huh
Damn I'm not smooth
No, I don't think so. Now had you said "Are you ladies interested in a good pounding?" That may have provoked a response. ![[mwah hwah haa]](graemlins/devil.gif)
It takes me awhile as well to get anywhere. But once I do, whoa mama. What I found odd, when I first became sexually active was that I could actually ejaculate. A boyfriend told me that that wasn't normal for a woman. After him and three years of living in shame I discovered (through an article in Playboy) that women can ejaculate that it is common and quite normal. So For the longest time I was afraid of doing that so I would purposly think of something else to prevent myself to get to that point (Yeah I'm a bright one). Now it takes me a lot longer and with some concentration to get to a pleasurable point..
A word of suggestions:
Foreplay seems a forgotten art, but a little of that can go a long, long way.
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