#38606
2003-01-20 4:13 AM
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That bf was a fuckin' moron! Obviously, he didn't want you to one-up him in the pleasure scale. Although, it's not an "official" fact, a woman who can do that has mighty muscles indeed! Damn, what a fuckin' moron. He never knew what he coulda had. ![[no no no]](graemlins/nono.gif) I was with a girl once that had shockwaves (and I do mean shockwaves) whenever she climaxed. She never did what you can/could Star, but she would fart 10 or 15 times before she calmed down. No smells, just rapid pucker action. Guess I'm just that good. ![[yuh huh]](images/icons/rolleyes.gif)
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#38607
2003-01-19 8:38 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by TK-069:
That bf was a fuckin' moron! Obviously, he didn't want you to one-up him in the pleasure scale. Although, it's not an "official" fact, a woman who can do that has mighty muscles indeed!
Thanks TK... *sniff* I feel a little better...
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Originally posted by TK-069:
Guess I'm just that good.
...and what's your number TK? ![[mwah hwah haa]](graemlins/devil.gif)
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#38608
2003-01-20 2:58 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Stareena:
...and what's your number TK?
069. I mean, c'mon now girl! It's molded into my armor and branded onto me by the Imperial Army!
oh. You mean my digits.
674-2762. It's a secret code. *hee hee*
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#38609
2003-01-20 4:22 AM
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For once I wish I was blonde again so I could get away with the blank stare. Secret code? WTF?! I wasn't in MENSA man...I thought storm troopers were suppose to be easily fooled and not so bright! We get landed with the Stephen Hawkins of the Storm tropper world. ![[AAAHHHH!!!]](graemlins/aahhh.gif)
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#38610
2003-01-20 5:06 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Stareena:
[QBIt takes me awhile as well to get anywhere. But once I do, whoa mama. What I found odd, when I first became sexually active was that I could actually ejaculate. A boyfriend told me that that wasn't normal for a woman. After him and three years of living in shame I discovered (through an article in Playboy) that women can ejaculate that it is common and quite normal. So For the longest time I was afraid of doing that so I would purposly think of something else to prevent myself to get to that point (Yeah I'm a bright one). Now it takes me a lot longer and with some concentration to get to a pleasurable point..
A word of suggestions:
Foreplay seems a forgotten art, but a little of that can go a long, long way.[/QB]
That's actually kinda hot.
What TK said. That means you got serious muscle control down there you can put the clampdown on some lucky guy. No need to be ashamed at all
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#38611
2003-01-20 5:17 AM
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Why thanks. I appreciate the support. When I read the article I was so relived that I wasn't a freak or something. Still it is hard for me to relax with this engrained in me.
Was talking with a guy friend who was relating a similar story, though he was with a ballerina and he couldn't pull out when she climaxed. That is food for though...
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#38612
2003-01-20 5:19 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Stareena:
Why thanks. I appreciate the support. When I read the article I was so relived that I wasn't a freak or something. Still it is hard for me to relax with this engrained in me. And when I say a long time, I'm talking like an hour at least and usually two maybe three different types of stimulations. Yeah, it usually is very frusterating.
Was talking with a guy friend who was relating a similar story, though he was with a ballerina and he couldn't pull out when she climaxed. That is food for though...
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#38613
2003-01-20 9:32 PM
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Holy frejole...
Why would he wanna pull out at a time like that (unless he wasn't protected)? I'd wanna ride it out!
Oh, as for the "secret code", just simply look at the letters associated with the phone numbers. If not, nevermind. Nobody wants to know the secret to permanent orgasm.
*sigh*
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#38614
2003-01-21 1:27 AM
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Ack! Grabs frantically for her cell phone...
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#38615
2003-01-23 11:53 PM
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She must've found it 'cause I haven't heard from Star since.
Women...
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#38616
2003-01-24 3:21 AM
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Beat a four day orgasm now Sting! Fuck Tantra!
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#38617
2003-01-25 12:16 AM
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I would if you'd tell me where she lives!
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#38618
2003-01-25 12:27 AM
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Question: Do any of you ladies watch porn? Why?
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#38619
2003-01-25 3:06 AM
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Porn? Why...I'm downloading porn as we speak! Why? Cause I'm stimulated visually, audibly as well as mentally. And though men are funny looking when nekked (doesn't matter the size, guys) it still is a turn on for me.
...I swear I was a guy in a previous life.
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#38620
2003-01-25 11:48 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Stareena:
Porn? Why...I'm downloading porn as we speak!
... I love you.
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...men are funny looking when nekked.
I'll take your word for it.
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(doesn't matter the size, guys)
Bullshit!
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#38621
2003-01-26 11:10 PM
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Size matters, a little bit, but what really counts is what they do with it. I've been with a man who was good size, but he didn't do much with it, then I was with a man who was very small, but he knew how to take care of business...and let me tell you he took care of bidness!
...I love you too TK.
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#38622
2003-01-27 7:08 AM
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[QUOTE] A word of suggestions: Foreplay seems a forgotten art, but a little of that can go a long, long way. I love foreplay. I can't get enuff of it. Neither can my girlfriend. ![[wink]](images/icons/wink.gif) But seriously, I put alot of effort into foreplay because I know it'll make her feel good. And since I'm gonna have an orgasm, she should have one too. [ 01-27-2003, 03:23 AM: Message edited by: dun_like_dinner ]
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#38623
2003-01-28 3:51 PM
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Amen!!! ![[woooOOOOoooo!]](graemlins/smilewoo.gif) A man who gets it!! (and as a result GETS IT!) ![[biiiig grin]](images/icons/grin.gif)
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#38624
2003-01-29 4:30 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by dun_like_dinner:
I love foreplay. I can't get enuff of it. Neither can my girlfriend.
But seriously, I put alot of effort into foreplay because I know it'll make her feel good. And since I'm gonna have an orgasm, she should have one too.[/qb]
I agree entirely and I haven't even had sex.
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#38625
2003-01-28 5:28 PM
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If people understand sex as a giving act and not a taking one, then there shouldn't be any question as to whether or not a guy should help the woman get something out of the experience. Gentlemen, considering how much crap women put up with from us, I don't think it's too much to ask to give the lady an orgasm or three, even if it means delaying gratification for yourself. This of course from a man who has never had sex, which doesn't bother me too much. I'll hold out for quality over quantity any day!
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#38626
2003-01-28 6:42 PM
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Good to see another kindred spirit on board.
A quartet of questions that have been bugging me for quite some time:
1) Is it possible in this day and age for a young guy to be romantic and not be perceived as homosexual (or wussy)?
2) At what point in the relationship is it appropriate to begin cooking for a romantic interest? (I've been cooking for family for years, so I've had practice)
3) Any entertaining suggestions on how to break the ice?
4) Could someone please explain the schematics of "friend
mode?"
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#38627
2003-01-28 9:26 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Captain Sammitch:
This of course from a man who has never had sex, which doesn't bother me too much. I'll hold out for quality over quantity any day! [/QB]
Oh young one.....
You say that now, but wait till you actually have it.
It's like a drug....
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#38628
2003-01-29 12:27 AM
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1) Is it possible in this day and age for a young guy to be romantic and not be perceived as homosexual (or wussy)?
Of course it's possible.
2) At what point in the relationship is it appropriate to begin cooking for a romantic interest? (I've been cooking for family for years, so I've had practice)
Hey, as long as the girl you're interested in is comfortable around you then just let it happen when ever it's convenient.
3) Any entertaining suggestions on how to break the ice?
That all depends on the situation and location. Not a good answer but it's true.
4) Could someone please explain the schematics of "friend
mode?"
You both pay your own way. You always meet each other at your destination. She talks to you about other guys.
I dunno. It's hard to say. But usually you can tell when a girl only has those "friend" feelings towards you.
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#38629
2003-01-29 2:44 PM
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friend mode (aka - in the "friend zone")
essentially, it means you fucked up somewhere. not purposely, or harmfully, but you did something, somehow, to remove yourself from "potential partner" and add yourself to "person who hears about potential partners"
you'll continue to try to escape from the friend zone, but 99.999% of the time, you'll be pathetically unable.
chris rock sums it up best:
women have men as friends like they have fire extinguishers on the wall. "in case of emergency, break glass" (i.e; when they want or need it, they'll get it -- but not before or until then).
men just have women as friends that they haven't fucked yet. they're just currently lost in the dreaded zone.
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#38630
2003-01-29 3:09 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Rob Kamphausen:
you'll continue to try to escape from the friend zone, but 99.999% of the time, you'll be pathetically unable.
I equate the Friend Zone to the Phantom Zone in Superman. And we all know how long it took Zod to get out of that.
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#38631
2003-01-30 4:30 AM
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and as soon as he got out, all he did was ask dudes to get on their knees.
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#38632
2003-01-29 5:42 PM
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#38633
2003-01-29 6:18 PM
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uh...yeah. So...I haven't really heard much about anybody's love interests, but it's college. Who (male or female) really wants to put their business out there on campus for the gossipers to run rampant with? (On that note, I'm only telling close friends about this site.) In any case, a future reference question: How do I stay out of the friend zone?
Another thing: How can I tell a girl likes or wants me (as they're not necessarily the same thing)?
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#38634
2003-01-29 6:33 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz:
uh...yeah. So...
Hey! Those three are mine! Get your own! ![[nyah hah]](images/icons/tongue.gif)
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Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz:
I haven't really heard much about anybody's love interests, but it's college. Who (male or female) really wants to put their business out there on campus for the gossipers to run rampant with? (On that note, I'm only telling close friends about this site.)
This is true. That's why I keep my own dealings with Pat kinda "hush-hush" here. Most of the guys I know off-line either know me fairly well or know Pat fairly well...and it wouldn't exactly do for them to know about all my anxiety over my current dating situation.
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Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz:
In any case, a future reference question: How do I stay out of the friend zone?
Be as "touchey feely" as you can get away with, without her getting upset or wanting to smack you. Touch her hand/arm/shoulder/back/etc. when in conversation. Drop subtle hints that you don't think of her as just a friend. Leave her little messages just saying "Hey" or "Hey, how ya doin'?" Find out what she likes/dislikes. Hell, just talk to her and listen when she does.
By the way....just calling her up when you're bored or have nothing better to do isn't necessarily a good thing.
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Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz:
Another thing: How can I tell a girl likes or wants me (as they're not necessarily the same thing)? Like I said, the student population prefers to keep these kinds of things on the down low...
Does she touch you when in conversation? Does she smile a lot when she's around you? Offer/give hugs every time you meet and every time you leave...and if she really returns them and makes any kind of "good noise" when you're hugging her...that's a good sign!
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#38635
2003-01-30 12:35 AM
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The "friend zone" is not necessarily a bad place to be. After a long time of being in the friend zone, I have had relationships move on to romantic from there. I have also had the opposite happen...I have had romanatic relationships move into the friend zone (a while after the break up) and actually had it work as a friendship.
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#38636
2003-01-30 2:54 AM
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Ah the friend zone. My experinces have not been so nice. I've had long term friends that I dated and now hate. If a guy moves into the friend zone, he's not there for good. Just until he looses the girlfriend. I'm just kidding! Seriously, guy friends aren't that bad. I've known a set (male and female) that were friends off an on for years and when they were both out of a relationship they would "date" each other. Even had sex, but it wasn't a "relationship" (at least that is what they say) and continue to be friends even while dating others. Everybody knows they are an awsome couple, except for them.
Whoa, but I'm rambling.
Anyway, the friend zone is not a bad place to be. It can transition one way or another. Love to friend, Friend to lover. But like Bianca said, look for the signs she listed to see if she is interested. ALWAYS offer a hug, patting her hand or arm is good, and I know this sounds weird, but grooming her. If she has lint on her or a stray hair, maybe asking to remove it at first (if the tocuhing trust has not been fully accepted) like "oh, you got a hair there, let me get that for you" it shows to me that you care enough to make sure I look good in public or even for you.
Yes we are that retarded.
Know this simple fact about woman. We read into EVERYTHING. A late phone call means he doesn't care. A bundle of flowers shows he does care. Three or more roses is love (in any color except yellow). If you are interested in a woman, one red rose speaks volumes. When you get a phone number, it is customary NOT to call the following day. This is acceptable. Sundays don't really count. It is sort of like a time out day. But do not let it go past three days, otherwise, she'll think you are not intersested (one guy waited a week and called me on a friday for a date that night. No! Bad! That is a good example of what you DON'T do).
...anything else?
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#38637
2003-01-30 4:21 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Kimi:
The "friend zone" is not necessarily a bad place to be.
Bullshit!
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#38638
2003-01-30 6:52 AM
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How do I escape! I somehow got season tickets in the Friend Zone!
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#38639
2003-01-30 1:25 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Bibbo:
How do I escape! I somehow got season tickets in the Friend Zone!
Have you read nothing we've said?
*sigh* Go back a page and catch up...
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#38640
2003-01-30 3:03 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by TK-069:
quote:
Originally posted by Kimi:
The "friend zone" is not necessarily a bad place to be.
Bullshit!
Agreed. The "friend zone" is the worst place a guy can be. The most horrible words in the English language are "let's just be friends." ![[eh?]](images/icons/confused.gif) ![[eh... i dunno... ]](graemlins/ehidunno.gif)
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#38641
2003-01-30 7:21 PM
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I'm starting to get used to those words. Moving on... The "Hi, sexy" I've been getting from one girl lately would be a welcome change if her ex weren't supposedly a jealous hothead. (I've been keeping my distance from both successfully up until the semester started.) That little tidbit isn't stopping her from trying to ease her way back into my pots and pans. She wants me to go with her to Pathmark tomorrow night so she can buy what I need to make her dinner. (Isn't once last semester enough?) That and she's dropping not so subtle hints that I'm gonna be her Valentine ("Be mine..."). Plus there's another girl who...nevermind, I'll save that story for next time. Is there any way I get out of this without an aggresive strike to one or several of the ex's nerve clusters?
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#38642
2003-02-05 1:45 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz:
The "Hi, sexy" I've been getting from one girl lately would be a welcome change if her ex weren't supposedly a jealous hothead. (I've been keeping my distance from both successfully up until the semester started.) That little tidbit isn't stopping her from trying to ease her way back into my pots and pans. She wants me to go with her to Pathmark tomorrow night so she can buy what I need to make her dinner. (Isn't once last semester enough?) That and she's dropping not so subtle hints that I'm gonna be her Valentine ("Be mine..."). Plus there's another girl who...nevermind, I'll save that story for next time. Is there any way I get out of this without an aggresive strike to one or several of the ex's nerve clusters?
SO...what happened dude??
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#38643
2003-02-05 10:16 PM
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We wound up making dinner, but nothing went as planned. She didn't go shopping until last Friday (she planned on going Wednesday or Thursday, the latest), plus she forgot the list I gave her, so she didn't know what to pick up for me to make the shrimp and couscous curry/apple crisp I was planning to make. Instead, she picked up one of those create a meal deals (an expensive one at that) hoping that I would make it for her Sunday at around 7 p.m. My suitemate Matt doesn't like shrimp, so I told him if he bought the ingredients, I'd make chicken parmigana (Actually, he asked if I would and I said yes). We were off to Pathmark and in the kitchen by 8. She wound up making the shrimp she bought, I cleaned the chicken at first. Matt originally tried frying it, but that didn't work out well. So I took over and baked the chicken parmigana. After one bite, Matt shook my hand and called me the "chicken master." To sum the dinner situation up: 1. What was supposed to be a dinner for her became a group effort. There was kind of a family Sunday dinner vibe to it, so it was nice. (At least for me.) 2. She don't have much to say to me outside "Hi", if that. In all likelihood, I've managed to wriggle my way off the "Be my Valentine" hook. 3. If you've got boneless skinless chicken breasts, I can make 'em taste good. As for the...sigh I'll post the other "story" later. [ 02-05-2003, 09:09 PM: Message edited by: Brian A. Ortiz ]
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2003-02-06 1:07 AM
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....Before I do, just one question. Men, I need your POV on this one: At what moment did you know your first was going to be your first?
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2003-02-06 4:51 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Brian A. Ortiz:
....Before I do, just one question. Men, I need your POV on this one: At what moment did you know your first was going to be your first?
Wow, I could say something so funny right now, but I won't out of respect.
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