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Originally posted by Stareena:
Compared to Kimi's story I come off slutty.

Not at all...Don't get me wrong...I was far from innocent at that point, we'd done everything but sleep together. But that guy had the reputation as a player, so I wanted to be sure it wasn't going to be a one night stand. I was older too. I was 23 (definitely old by American standards). But I waited by choice. In college, I had many opportunities, but I didn't want to lose my virginity in a one night stand. And I didn't want to get a reputation. I went to a small school and everyone knew who was sleeping with who. It wasn't my thing. My first wasn't and ideal choice, but I think I got tired of waiting for the "right" guy to come around. He was definitely a wild guy (probably the wildest that I have dated even up until now) and I learned a lot from him. Oh, and like Stareena, my first time didn't hurt a bit.