I thought this thread had become lost after a recent bsaming. I was certainly surprised to see it had resurfaced!
Thanks everybody for all of the kind thoughts. Things are certainly a little bit better a month later. All the relatives are gone now and we have our house back. That has helped. We took my Brother's ashes to a family plot across from the home where my Father was raised. That helped bring closure. Lots of things to be done with his estate still but things are slowly coming together. The big question is my Brother's web-site and if it will be able to continue. I think it will. The moderators and the posters at the web-site seem to be totally committed.