Hang in there Lancers...we're all praying for you! My grandmother was just diagnosed with cancer last week and we were told she has three months to live so I sorta understand a lil' bit of what you're going through!
My mom shared this quote with me at my grandfather's funeral a few years ago and its always helped me, "God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way."
