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2003-01-06 10:04 AM
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I realize that calling you perverts "Men" is stretching things a bit, but seeing as all I have to work with is you, I'll just make the best of it.
So here's my question, despite how totally sexist it sounds: What really appeals to you men about a woman?
The Physical? Nice D Cups, Killer Ass, Nice Legs, Long Hair, Eye Color, Someone that shuts the fuck up and lets you pleasure her? What?
The Mental? Smart? Witty? Funny? Short yellow school bus sitting in front of the screendoor wearing a apron and missmatched socks "special?" What?
The Spiritual? Buddhist? Loves the Lord? Someone crazy and smart enought to start a Cult?
Or is it a mixture of all three? What is that one thing you can't live without in a woman/girlfriend/mate/wife/fuck buddy?
Discuss:
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#42792
2003-01-06 10:09 AM
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Well the physical aaspect does come in to play for every single human being alive...there simple will be NO relationship on either side if there isn't some physical attraction. Not drop dead...but something.
Mental, yes she does have to be able to hold an intellegent conversation, because despite what you might read here I do as well.
Spiritual, she can worhip trees for all I care as long as she doesnt try to force religion on to me.
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#42793
2003-01-06 12:29 PM
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Personally,the physical aspect is only(no pun intened)the surface.But there are certain things on a woman I notice first.The face obviously,but I don't care if she's the most beautiful woman in the world..if she ain't smiling,I'm not interested.The eyes also,provide a good bit of info... if there's that little twinkle or mischevious look,then I know they have a sense of humour mixed with a little devil. As for body type,I don't care.Thin,large...somewhere in between,doesn't bother me in the least. Boobies....well,big 'uns are visually appealing but when it comes down to it,as long as they're bigger than mine,that's what matters. Legs.....ooooo....like the commercial goes,you can't beat a great pair of legs. Ass...love a girl's ass.Want to touch the heiny.Size matters not. So there's the physical aspect.As you can tell,I ain't picky in that regard,because the next part is the most important. The mind...plain & simple,no bimbos allowed.If the conversation revolves around twirling hair & the way the manicurist does the nails,be prerared to clean up after I shoot myself. I enjoy witty,intelligent conversation with the occasional sideline into sarcastic remarks.By no means am I some intellectual,but I enjoy talking about more than the current sale at JC Penny's. I love a good sense of humour and women with these are hard to find.I don't just mean telling a good joke,but someone who appreciates subtle humour as well. So there you have it....I'm a pig,but I'm a pig with taste. ![[biiiig grin]](images/icons/grin.gif)
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#42794
2003-01-06 1:01 PM
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I have made love with four women in my life. I don't consider any of these relationships as exclusively sexual in nature. I have been out to dinner, watched movies or shows, gone for walks/swims, and have solved all of the world's problems with each of my partners. Each of these ladies, have unique interests, but all of them are intelligent and witty women. None of them conform to a particular body image (In fact, physically, each have had different eye & hair colour, they range from slim to chubby, short to tall and even their ages have ranged from mid twenties to late thirties). Of course I would be lying, if I didn't go "phwor" when I see an attractive woman. I like to look at woman with larger breasts and a nice ass. Though, I find a woman's face (especially the eyes and smile), make a woman far more attractive, than large boobs and cute butt. Though I also have to confess, that I like the look of women with long red-hair, glasses, or bare shoulders. . . ![[um.... uh huh! ... ]](graemlins/umuhhuh001.gif) (but red hair and glasses are not prerequisites, I can live with my partner not being a red-head or specticled). Religiously speaking, I am agnostic. I have talked about religion with all of my partners and when we were together we discussed our beliefs. Part of the reason I broke up with a former girlfriend, was because she (and her mother) tried to "convert" me into the Catholic Church. And though I never stopped my then girlfriend from practicing her beliefs, I felt rather uncomfortable (and hypercritical) about taking part in religious ceremonies. [ 01-06-2003, 09:17 AM: Message edited by: Britannica ]
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#42795
2003-01-06 3:40 PM
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i dont think i've ever been out "girl friend hunting" -- it just sorta happens.
so, i never go to a club or whatever and say "hmm... i wonder if that chick read plato's "the republic'" or "hey, i bet that girl is a huge seinfeld fan"
nope. its all about the looks at first.
i will go to a club or whatever and say "my god, that chick has the sweetest ass" or "damn, her shirt is tight"
i love girls. i loves the way they look. if yer lookin for standards, ill go with small (height and width), very curvy (butt and boobs), longer hair, and, of course, a nice face. other than classifying "hot girl" -- im not too picky after that. i've hooked up with chicks taller than me, with red hair, latina, rich, whatever. i just likes'em to look nice.
but gettin past that...
when im lookin for a girl to actually date repeatedly, i gotta be able to talk to her. and i gotta be able to stand listening to her.
im looking for good personality. someone who can carry their own in a conversation. and, most certainly, someone who loves to laugh and be crazy and have fun.
after that, nothing else really matters that much. i think its stupid to look for a specific type or, even worse, look for someone who is your perfect match. if i dated someone who liked everything i liked, id find the conversations boring after awhile.
i like learning about new and different things. and i like teaching girls about my new and different things. if she's into buddha, id love to hear it as much as id love to show her about batman.
and all my previous girlfriends have been that sorta persona -- they're friends i can hang out with.
and lets not forget the sex or sexual acts. i've got more energy than anyone i know, so its gotta be extremely frequent. and she's gotta be dirty or open minded. i needs me a super freak.
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#42796
2003-01-07 4:23 AM
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' i needs me a super freak'... HA!
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#42797
2003-01-06 6:18 PM
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Personally speaking, I've never had a girlfriend in my twenty-one years on this planet. The closest I've ever come was a lM relationship. But that's not the topic, so let's move on...
I've never really been big on T&A. The girls I've been attracted to varied in shape. There are three characteristics which I find attractive:
1. I'm a sucker for a smile. If a girl combines that with flirtatious eye contact, it'll be a while before I get her off my mind.
2. I'm not going to lie and say physhical attraction doesn't play a part, it's a bit of a wildcard, though. Long story short: I don't just analyze the entire package, but how well it's assembled (for lack of a better term).
3. Physical attraction draws me to women, but it's their personality which keeps me interested. She doesn't have to make me laugh constantly or fill every minute with conversation; she just has to be comfortable enough to be her down-to-earth self. Oh, and she also has to enjoy my cooking. Every so often, she'll have to put up with me pampering her. If she likes poetry, that's a plus.
I think I'll end this rant now. I'm not thinking as clearly as I'd like to be...
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#42798
2003-01-06 8:46 PM
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Physical Attraction: Since I was born and mostly raised in the Bay Area, CA, my eye for the ladies is very open to all ethnicities. White, Black, Latina, Chicana, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Indian, Arab, African, Haitian, Jamaican, Australian, or even fuckin' Martian, it don't even matter to me! I love all the endearing female qualities associated with the ethicities, but the two things that really ensnare me to a woman are her eyes and lips. I dunno why, but I loves em. Boobs butts and legs are nice, but I have no specific size or dimensions. As long as she has all of the above, without previous augmentation, it's gravy baby.
Mental & Emotional Capacity: Daddy don't want no moron. The woman has to be smart. Book smart, street smart, comic smart. The Smart Trinity. I'll also go with what Rob said about learning new things from each other. I like to learn new things and grow; she has to be open and accepting to new thoughts and ideals just as I should be to hers. I'm not saying we have to like what we share, but at least be tolerable. She has to be witty and sarcastic. Sarcasm and self-depreciation really break the ice for some reason, and most of the ladies I've dated or made as friends seem more comfortable when I turn it on, and they play along. The one thing I look for most is honesty. I don't want any
bullshit, just tell me like it is.
Spirituality: I do have a slight prejudice to atheists. I was raised in a deeply spiritual family, so I have to be with someone who at least acknowledges a Presence of some sorts at work. Religion itself is no factor; I'm very accepting to new beliefs, except for anything that involves cannibalism.
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#42799
2003-01-06 10:27 PM
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Far as Physical goes its not any one thing, though I am a breast man, its that chemistry....that spark that you get when ya see 'em. I have had it for red heads, brunettes, blondes, bald heads. It could be anything. like the way that they smile.
Emotional and mental.....the number 1 thing that turns me on more than anything else is seeing a woman stand up for herself and not put up with crap while at the same time demonstrating a true compassion for others (for instance seeing a girl take up for someone who is being done wrong).
Spritual wise....I like a girl who believes in Christ and accepts what he did as truth.
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#42800
2003-01-07 1:48 AM
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I agree with TK-069 on the subject of spirituality. I seem to get along better with a woman who has a sense of morals. However, she shouldn't be so morally conscious it prevents her from having fun. Overkill is not attractive.
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#42801
2003-01-07 3:32 AM
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Is it just me or does all this honesty make these guys VERY attractive?? ![[humina humina]](graemlins/love.gif)
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#42802
2003-01-07 4:02 AM
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I like women who vote Republican.
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#42803
2003-01-07 4:45 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by MisterJLA:
I like women who vote Republican.
Well shit! That places me on the "hate" list!
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#42804
2003-01-07 4:48 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Kimi:
Is it just me or does all this honesty make these guys VERY attractive??
It do indeed Kimi! But considering that there are plenty NB here not existing, me finding them attractive kinda scares the hell out of me.
But seriously, this is a refreshing change from the 98% anal retentiveness and asshole tactics you guys usually pull. I can actually see giving one of yall some booty!
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#42805
2003-01-07 6:29 AM
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uh huh huh... Kori wrote 'retentiveness'. ![[yuh huh]](images/icons/rolleyes.gif)
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#42806
2003-01-07 1:54 PM
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I like a girl with a nice face. By that I don't mean a supermodel face, just one that isn't full of attitude. A lot of good looking girls walk around with an expression of distaste for everyone and everything around them. (I tell 'em to go to Hell and to lighten up. That's why people don't like them. You know. A public service message type thing. I do it because I care.) I just want a girl who doesn't think she's better than anyone else.
A sense of humor is a must for me. There have been plenty a pretty girl that I've wound up ignoring because they can't take a joke. I can't take everything too seriously or else I'll go insane in the membrane. I need a girl who can help keep me sane.
A brain is required also. I need a girl who can think. She doesn't have to have the same political or religious beliefs as me, but she does need to have a damn good reason for believing them. Case in point: My old roommate dated this pretty cute chick who was a Democrat. She even participated in the local campaign for Gore back in '00. Most of my political leanings are towards the conservative (but not a Republican by a long shot), so I thought it would be interesting to get a discussion or two going. Man, was that the wrong idea. She was just a mindless drone who did whatever the Democratic Party told her. She knew nothing of the issues. At one point in one conversation, while I was trying to lay out some cold, hard facts, her actual response was (and I quote verbatim), "I don't want to know the facts. The facts won't change my mind." Needless to say, I never even spoke to her again. To quote my good buddy Jack Wolf, "Stupid bitches get off here."
Oh, and a nice rack is always a plus. I really don't care about the size, as long as they's nice. To quote the great philosopher and shoe salesman, Al Bundy, "Big 'uns. Little 'uns. Round 'uns."
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#42807
2003-01-07 3:15 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
quote:
Originally posted by Kimi:
Is it just me or does all this honesty make these guys VERY attractive??
It do indeed Kimi! But considering that there are plenty NB here not existing, me finding them attractive kinda scares the hell out of me.
But seriously, this is a refreshing change from the 98% anal retentiveness and asshole tactics you guys usually pull. I can actually see giving one of yall some booty!
Men are sometimes anal retentive/assholes unintentionally. speaking from personal experience, I have a tendency to fumble my statements when attempting to express myself verbally, yet my writing is (at times)eloquent. However, this does not change the fact verbal expression is the main vehicle of communication in a number of everyday occurrences. Without it, the establishment of trust can be a seemingly insurmountable obstacle. In the few romantic pursuits in which I have overcome such a challenge, a certain sense of intimacy is lost. Attempting to force the issue only heightens the awkwardness of the situation. I know what it's like to have an invisible line which prevents me from expressing everything I feel for someone I'm affectionate towards. It's frustrating not to tell a woman that her presence eased the burdens I was feeling moments before, or to comfort with a massage and/or dinner, or to treat her like royalty just because.
Hmm...looks like I've strayed far enough off-topic. Furthermore, this post is starting to resemble a personal essay . I'm gonna go make some chicken wellington and sugar cookie/ice cream sandwiches and check back in later.
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#42808
2003-01-07 7:31 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Princess Koriand'r:
quote:
Originally posted by Kimi:
Is it just me or does all this honesty make these guys VERY attractive??
It do indeed Kimi! But considering that there are plenty NB here not existing, me finding them attractive kinda scares the hell out of me.
But seriously, this is a refreshing change from the 98% anal retentiveness and asshole tactics you guys usually pull. I can actually see giving one of yall some booty!
Please to meet you, sorry I'm kinda jumping on this subject but it's kinda refreshing when you get a girl posting the traditional "you guys are such pigs" thread.
All I really have to say on the subject is that for you girls out there, whenever a guy comes up and starts the "asshole tactics" on you, it usually means he's pretty damn smitten by your style (style meaning the whole bag; your face, the sound of your laugh, how quick your wit is, your badoongadonk, all of it) but he's way too insecure to know exactly how to approach you, so he is forced to resort to the "push the girl in the sandbox" routine. Some girls can see through that and think it's cute, some girls think it's pathetic, some girls want it. Variety is the spice of life I guess.
And if anyone wants to hear the grossest hook-up story I ever heard in my life, just ask. (not very pretty, this one is.) ![[no no no]](graemlins/nono.gif)
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#42809
2003-01-07 7:34 PM
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And one more time cause I love to write it;
....badoongadonk....
mm mm. work of art......
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#42810
2003-01-07 7:46 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Britannica:
Of course I would be lying, if I didn't go "phwor" when I see an attractive woman. I like to look at woman with larger breasts and a nice ass. Though, I find a woman's face (especially the eyes and smile), make a woman far more attractive, than large boobs and cute butt. Though I also have to confess, that I like the look of women with long red-hair, glasses, or bare shoulders. . . (but red hair and glasses are not prerequisites, I can live with my partner not being a red-head or specticled).
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Oh and Brit? Are red heads not fabulous?! Your country's got some good ones. I was in London this past semester and I was hookin up for awhile with this geeeyorgeous woman from Sidney. We ran home from dinner in the rain once and she just looked up at me with her red hair all wild and wet and tossed around and I swear I just blacked out and went caveman on her!
God bless Australia!
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#42811
2003-01-07 9:28 PM
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![[gulp!]](gulp.gif) Can I post here? I just wanna warn you guys that this is gonna be a collection of some of my deeper thoughts, so don't laugh at me until I'm out of earshot. ![[wink]](images/icons/wink.gif) Since human beings are obviously a mixture of physical, mental, and spiritual aspects, the logical conclusion is that men (myself included) are generally idiots when it comes to defining what they look for in a woman without offending somebody. Quite honestly, I find it a bit difficult to define. And when I do manage to get it all out, nobody believes me. But in all honesty, I think three of the most important things I look for in a woman I am interested in are - whether or not I can have a good time when I'm with her, - whether or not I'm able to just be myself around her, or - whether or not she challenges me to become a better person. Yeah, I know, it sounds completely manufactured. But bear with me. Of all the girls I've dated (as of my sophomore year of college), three model at least on a part-time basis, and one was a Miss Ohio (it's more prestigious than you'd think) runner-up. I consider myself at least something of an authority here. But I'm not here to brag on myself, or else this would be one depressing post. Let me explain. Looks are important to a certain extent - pretty much any guy who says otherwise is either lying or so desperate that his eyes have been disconnected from his... I better leave it at that. But appearance is a purely subjective thing. A guy can say a girl looks good and be absolutely right in his own mind yet totally wrong according to the guy next to him. Personally? Of the three models I dated, the one I found most attractive was the plus-size model, and I'm not at all ashamed of that. Yet what I find attractive a lot of guys are put off by. What's more, everyone changes their minds about what they find attractive from time to time. Add to that the simple reality that appearance is a very temporary thing, and you start to realize that yeah, appearance can be the only criterion you go on, but it's not a very solid foundation for selecting someone you want to share yourself with. One other thing that a lot of people overlook - nobody agrees on everything, and it's both impractical and unwise to try and seek out someone who agrees with you on absolutely every issue, and even less advisable to try and convince them to see eye-to-eye with you on everything. All the same, it's probably not a good idea to try and build a relationship with someone who disagrees with you on almost everything, or on something really major like religious beliefs. Quite frankly, the purpose of forming a relationship is not to debate every single tenet of what someone believes, and any relationship that actually thrives is cemented through the things people have in common. It may work out on TV, but relationships between people of extremely different beliefs don't appear to work very well at all in my experience. Hmmmm, what else? Oh, yeah. Human beings change, by the way. Quite frequently. You can't expect the person you fall in love with at 17 to be the same person at 23. I have no problem with people forming relationships at a young age, but I think it's very naive to expect people not to change. As human beings we are in a constant state of growth and change, as we start to discover new things and realize that some of the things that were important to us when we were younger aren't so major anymore. I have come to realize that I need to give anyone I love room to grow, and that requires a lot of patience. But at the same time I sometimes try the patience of those who love me too. So it's in my opinion extremely important that you choose someone you can grow with, someone flexible, patient, and trusting who elicits the same virtues from you. That's pretty much my reasoning behind what I look for in a woman. Appearance is important, but not the most important thing to me. I place a lot of emphasis on being able to have fun and be myself when I'm in a relationship, because after all, if you can't be you and have the other person love you, chances are it's not you that they love to begin with. Those are, once again, my own opinions, and I have no desire to offend or upset anyone. If you disagree with me on any of my points, feel free to tell me - I would welcome the chance to learn something.
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#42812
2003-01-07 10:24 PM
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well.....okay but
I mean if you REALLY believe all that, fine. But a lot of that sounds so g@ddamn PC that I almost believe you're saying it to try to steer away from the heart of the conflict.
First of all don't label men "idiots" in the way we view our approach to women, that's corny, and sounds like something an angry woman would say. The way we go on the hunt is the same way women work their "guerilla warfare" tactics on us, so what goes around comes...
You make a lot of great points about dating and holy hell three models is a great catch but that's dating. When looking for just a hook-up, yeah looks become a first priority. Is this restricted to only men? absolutely not. When I'm with female colleagues they can go off about a guy's butt for as long as we can sit through a Schwartzenegger movie-fest.
And i mean I know that's irrelevant to what you're talking about cause you're talking about a relationship with a girl, which is a whole other ball game. Looks take a back seat to the little things about her and all, yeah I know the deal. But personally I don't think that's why this thread was posted by whoever in the first place. I think the real issue here is sex and the single life. Plain and simple, because that's the subject where men and women tend to disagree on the most (or at least PRETEND to).
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#42813
2003-01-07 10:53 PM
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Oh, well shoot! I thought it was serious! ![[nyah hah]](images/icons/tongue.gif) In that case, disregard all that! :lol: You probably wanted to know about what I look at, meaning just that. If we restrict things to appearance, that makes it a bit easier. I'm not extremely picky, but I am a bit... unorthodox, you might say. A lot of guys like really skinny girls, which is okay, but I'm not really one of them. The whole anorexic look doesn't really do it for me. Quite honestly, I have a lot of appreciation for women with curves. I'll just leave it at that, lest I risk incurring the wrath of... anyone whose wrath I might possibly incur. I'll go now.
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#42814
2003-01-07 11:03 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Captain Sammitch:
Oh, well shoot! I thought it was serious!
In that case, disregard all that! :lol:
You probably wanted to know about what I look at, meaning just that. If we restrict things to appearance, that makes it a bit easier.
I'm not extremely picky, but I am a bit... unorthodox, you might say. A lot of guys like really skinny girls, which is okay, but I'm not really one of them. The whole anorexic look doesn't really do it for me. Quite honestly, I have a lot of appreciation for women with curves. I'll just leave it at that, lest I risk incurring the wrath of... anyone whose wrath I might possibly incur.
I'll go now.
And to think, I was about to agree with your previous statement... ![[...rassamnfrackin...]](graemlins/grumble01.gif)
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2003-01-07 11:13 PM
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Hold on! I'm not done shooting myself in the foot!
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Damn.
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#42816
2003-01-07 11:17 PM
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NonononoNO! Nightwing! This is what ticks me off! Don't you see how both statements can co-exist? It's two totally different things! He's talking about relationships on one hand and sexlife on the other. And personally I dig curves as well. ![[woooOOOOoooo!]](graemlins/smilewoo.gif)
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2003-01-07 11:45 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by MisterJLA:
I like women who vote Republican.
Hey there, handsome!
Wow. What can I say? A lot of these comments are really mature and sweet.
And Captain, I like the comment about curves. My roommate's complaining about not fitting into a size zero anymore. He he he.
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2003-01-08 12:27 AM
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Originally posted by La Machine:
NonononoNO! Nightwing!
This is what ticks me off!
Don't you see how both statements can co-exist? It's two totally different things! He's talking about relationships on one hand and sexlife on the other.
And personally I dig curves as well.
I wasn't in agreement with the entire statement, just what Sammitch felt were the three most important characteristics (enjoying her company, being comfortable around her, being challenged to become a better person). I've favored relationships over sex, so I agreed with him on those points. As for the rest...He pretty much shot his left foot into swiss cheese as far as I'm concerned.
What more is there to say but...curves give a woman's body (even her silhouette!) an artistic flow that pleases the eye. In short, attractive woman + curves = astoundingly attractive woman.
Shifting somewhat off-topic: Kimi, your quote is funny :lol: People really do wonder what I'm up to when I smile.
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#42819
2003-01-08 12:28 AM
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Well Princess, I just saw this thread. Quite popular already. This is what I have to say.
Physical. It's the first thing we look at. Unless I happen to encounter a woman online, you know via a message board or something, which is not a preferred method, because there is distance and the fear she can be mentally disturbed or lying about her situation. ANYWAYS, the physical appearance cannot tell many lies unless it deals with fake boobs, hair color, or eye lenses. But I don't really care about those.
They might draw me in, but it means this woman either has taste in her presentation, or might overdo it and look like very slutty, in which case I want to stay away. To be honest, I like a woman who can wear tight pants, showing off a nice well-toned ass, because it makes me want to go down around there orally. Just makes the legs and the whole body seem in shape and sexy. I don't know if it's shallow, but it creates an amazing sense of sensuality with all the curves. I love looking at a woman's eyes and her smile. So whether they are blue, hazel, green, brown or whatever, as long at they are big, beautiful and sparkling with intelligence and interest. The smile needs teeth. I like it when they have chins too.
Some women get fixated on the breast thing. It's not that important to me. I like them regardless of how they are. But it's nice if they are not funky shaped. I know how that sounds, but there are so really nasty lookin' tits out there.
Mental... Well I like a woman who is definitely independent and can do her own thing, but I am tired of the feminist breed that is totally into proving that it constantly needs to show it can do everything men can do, if only to say they don't need men. Kind of like out of inner anger or rage. That means, I like a woman who actually likes men for what they are. Needs to be intelligent, and outgoing to deal with my brain and my shyness. I read a lot and traveled around the world, so she would have to have those same desires. To seek to learn and want to debate things in jest and laugh about the stupid things, knowing that no matter how serious life gets, we only live once, so there's no need to freak out.
I am Agnostic, kind of searching for meaning in the universe. She could be religious, but skeptical and not a regular church-goer. Girls I dated and talked to would mention how they grew up Catholic or Jewish or Lutheran or whatever, kind of going and losing faith. Some never attended. One's I had problems with were the utterly devout. Because we couldn't bridge the gap. Despite respect for them, I felt no matter how religion brought people together, it ultimately divided them.
I like a woman who is a lover, best friend, and confidante. I mean, it's someone you want to go to the mall with, even if she annoys you at times, because you love talking to her. She has the kind of personality that makes you want to hear what she has to say and offer. I'd like to meet a woman that makes me want to take up some stupid kind of yoga or dance class for the hell of it, just to say I am becoming a better person. Again, the world travelling. Plus hot sex, you know, nice ass that looks good in Victoria's Secret lingerie. I need to be turned on...
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#42820
2003-01-08 2:56 AM
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Originally posted by Cowgirl Jack:
...And Captain, I like the comment about curves. My roommate's complaining about not fitting into a size zero anymore. He he he.
Size zero??? Pffffft! The greatest relationship I was ever in was with a girl who was a size 18!
These poor anorexic girls... And it's all because of unhappy men who can't find simple pleasure in the more substantial things in life.
A guy once told me I was odd for not preferring super-skinny girls like "everyone else" did. I apologized for not accepting that the purpose of my life was conforming to others' piddling social conventions. ![[mwah hwah haa]](graemlins/devil.gif) I'm personally not in a big hurry to let my own personal preferences be eradicated by the superficial and unrealistic expectations of a marketing-driven society that is totally unable to see beauty in anything that doesn't sell. Yeah. ![[eh?]](images/icons/confused.gif)
Ok, I'll shut up now. If any of you feel the need to argue, my AIM screen name is captainsammitch. I love a good debate - sometimes.
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#42821
2003-01-08 3:04 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by (young) Nightwing:
I wasn't in agreement with the entire statement, just what Sammitch felt were the three most important characteristics (enjoying her company, being comfortable around her, being challenged to become a better person). I've favored relationships over sex, so I agreed with him on those points.
Fair enough. I find that a lot of people think that way. It means that not everyone is as shallow as the media would have us believe. Hats off to you for that.
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Also posted by (young) Nightwing:
As for the rest...He pretty much shot his left foot into swiss cheese as far as I'm concerned.
Yeah, well, I have a tendency to do that a lot.
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Also posted by (young) Nightwing:
What more is there to say but...curves give a woman's body (even her silhouette!) an artistic flow that pleases the eye.
I couldn't agree more. I dunno if you'll go with me on this in particular, but in my opinion it's kinda hard for a girl to have too much curviness. That's just the way I'm wired, I guess.
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Unsurprisingly posted by (young) Nightwing:
In short, attractive woman + curves = astoundingly attractive woman.
I'm not alone!!!
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#42822
2003-01-08 3:17 AM
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Hey Captain I think the guy who said to you that most men like the skinny look is wrong. I think a large percentage of men like healthy-looking woman. You're not in a minority. A lot of guys I know like woman with 'some meat on the bones.'
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#42823
2003-01-08 4:08 AM
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.....Badoongadonk.
ha. can't get enough of it. that's the funniest word ever made.
Love the voluptuous girls. Lemme see if I can do a run-down of the "meat on the bones" descriptions my boys and I have done in the past together when we see a "well-endowed girl". Ladies I'm seriously not trying to be offensive here. I just think this stuff was so funny when I heard it.;
1. "She got a donkey!"
2. "I bet you could see that from the front."
3. "Love to put some icing on THAT cake."
4. (when she's walking down the street) "Camera one, camera two, camera one, camera two, etc." (I love that one)
5. "Wonder if she needs a licence when she takes that out for a walk."
6. "I always wanted a trampoline."
7. (My personal favorite aside from badoonga; you go up to her and ask)"Does the double burger combo come with fries or...?"
8. (when she passes by) "Damn. Wonder if they'll be any aftershocks."
9. "She's been eatin her collard greens,"
10. "Better go tenderize that before they put it out on the rack"
Okay okay. I'll stop. I'm sorry I'll probably get into trouble for this by somebody. But seriously it's all in fun. CJ, I'm sure you got a couple you could share representing the other side, you devil you.
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#42824
2003-01-08 4:24 AM
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Not offended, brother. Very amusing. You asked for it... "Dear Lord couldn't you just grab that?" "You think he noticed I was staring at his @$$?" "Wow...he must work out." "That @$$ of his...it's such a pleasent shape." "Ugh...if we go to the gym, we'll see lots of hot guys...but we won't be fit enough for them. Jackie, what's that butt exercise you do?" "Hey Jackie, there's one of those Mediterriana boys you like..." [This one made me roll over and laugh] "Jackie, that guy on the bus was looking at your butt...and he looked like he was enjoying it." "Come on, what's there not to like? Nice hair, nice eyes, nice butt...and he OPENS DOORS FOR YOU!" That's all I can think of right now. Oh and La Machine? Get on AOL IM. You're on my buddy list but you're never online. [ 01-08-2003, 12:31 AM: Message edited by: Cowgirl Jack ]
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#42825
2003-01-08 5:04 AM
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I know. I don't do AOL. Don't ask. In the process of moving to NYC and it's just not a priority right now.
And I'm very flattered. I'd like to shoot the shit over Miami with you but I'm not very computer oriented, so if you got ideas..
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#42826
2003-01-08 11:27 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by La Machine:
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Originally posted by Britannica:
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Oh and Brit? Are red heads not fabulous?! Your country's got some good ones. I was in London this past semester and I was hookin up for awhile with this geeeyorgeous woman from Sidney. We ran home from dinner in the rain once and she just looked up at me with her red hair all wild and wet and tossed around and I swear I just blacked out and went caveman on her!
God bless Australia![/QB]
You lucky dog, Machine. . . :)
Indeed Australia produces some very lovely women (red-headed and otherwise).
You're in England? I'm originally from England (Kent to be precise). I've only been back twice, since my family moved to Australia when I was 8.
I don't know if it's just me, but I just melt when I hear a woman with an English, Scot, Welsh or Irish accent.
Having listed all of my physical "fetishes", I would like to point out that my finance is originally from Vietnam (with a Chinese background, and Japanese looks). So no red hair, British Isle accents (or glasses let it be known), but I love her with all my heart. In truth, I'm inclined to call My (that's my finance's name. Pronounced Me), my "soulmate".
We met when I logged her onto the internet at the public library I work at.
She is a lot smarter than she give's herself credit for, she can speak Vietnamese, 2 dialects of Chinese and English fluently (I still have trouble with English and I have only picked up the barest minimum of the Vietnamese language).
We make each other laugh, we cook for each other, we offer each other support when the other needs it, bounce ideas (work, study or otherwise) off each other, teach each other about our respective cultures and are happily making plans for our future together. The kisses and cuddles aren't bad either.
My's family are Buddhists (though My doesn't practice regularly), so when we get married (this December) we will be having a traditional Chinese wedding ceremony in the morning and a Western "civil" ceremony (in a garden) and reception in the early evening (it will be summer here then). :)
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2003-01-08 11:45 AM
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quote:
Originally posted by Captain Sammitch:
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Originally posted by Cowgirl Jack:
...And Captain, I like the comment about curves. My roommate's complaining about not fitting into a size zero anymore. He he he.
Size zero??? Pffffft! The greatest relationship I was ever in was with a girl who was a size 18!
These poor anorexic girls... And it's all because of unhappy men who can't find simple pleasure in the more substantial things in life.
A guy once told me I was odd for not preferring super-skinny girls like "everyone else" did. I apologized for not accepting that the purpose of my life was conforming to others' piddling social conventions. I'm personally not in a big hurry to let my own personal preferences be eradicated by the superficial and unrealistic expectations of a marketing-driven society that is totally unable to see beauty in anything that doesn't sell. Yeah.
Ok, I'll shut up now. If any of you feel the need to argue, my AIM screen name is captainsammitch. I love a good debate - sometimes.
Sorry, no arguments from me on this point, :)
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2003-01-08 2:34 PM
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2003-01-08 5:13 PM
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That is a good thing...very good. Nice to see some depth around here!
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2003-01-08 6:19 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Britannica:
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You lucky dog, Machine. . . :Indeed Australia produces some very lovely women (red-headed and otherwise).
You're in England? I'm originally from England (Kent to be precise). I've only been back twice, since my family moved to Australia when I was 8.
I don't know if it's just me, but I just melt when I hear a woman with an English, Scot, Welsh or Irish accent.
Having listed all of my physical "fetishes", I would like to point out that my finance is originally from Vietnam (with a Chinese background, and Japanese looks). So no red hair, British Isle accents (or glasses let it be known), but I love her with all my heart. In truth, I'm inclined to call My (that's my finance's name. Pronounced Me), my "soulmate".
We met when I logged her onto the internet at the public library I work at.
She is a lot smarter than she give's herself credit for, she can speak Vietnamese, 2 dialects of Chinese and English fluently (I still have trouble with English and I have only picked up the barest minimum of the Vietnamese language).
We make each other laugh, we cook for each other, we offer each other support when the other needs it, bounce ideas (work, study or otherwise) off each other, teach each other about our respective cultures and are happily making plans for our future together. The kisses and cuddles aren't bad either.
My's family are Buddhists (though My doesn't practice regularly), so when we get married (this December) we will be having a traditional Chinese wedding ceremony in the morning and a Western "civil" ceremony (in a garden) and reception in the early evening (it will be summer here then). :) [/QB][/QUOTE]
That's beautiful man. Congrats. She sounds like a sharp girl. Those are the kind I like too; girls that keep you on your toes. The only girlfriend I ever had; we couldn't stand each other at first. Then one night we were both plastered and she challenged me in front of everyone to a staring contest. That was it after that. I don't even remember getting to the bedroom. :lol:
So I wish you the best once again and no I'm not in England right now. I studied over there (and Ireland too) last semster. Back in good ol New Jersey now (hence all the obscure sports references you probably don't understand. Sorry) . Speaking of which, did England ever recover from that massive stomping your country's cricket team gave them? I mean that was just pathetic, and i don't even know half the game.
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