Well Princess, I just saw this thread. Quite popular already. This is what I have to say.
Physical. It's the first thing we look at. Unless I happen to encounter a woman online, you know via a message board or something, which is not a preferred method, because there is distance and the fear she can be mentally disturbed or lying about her situation. ANYWAYS, the physical appearance cannot tell many lies unless it deals with fake boobs, hair color, or eye lenses. But I don't really care about those.
They might draw me in, but it means this woman either has taste in her presentation, or might overdo it and look like very slutty, in which case I want to stay away. To be honest, I like a woman who can wear tight pants, showing off a nice well-toned ass, because it makes me want to go down around there orally. Just makes the legs and the whole body seem in shape and sexy. I don't know if it's shallow, but it creates an amazing sense of sensuality with all the curves. I love looking at a woman's eyes and her smile. So whether they are blue, hazel, green, brown or whatever, as long at they are big, beautiful and sparkling with intelligence and interest. The smile needs teeth. I like it when they have chins too.
Some women get fixated on the breast thing. It's not that important to me. I like them regardless of how they are. But it's nice if they are not funky shaped. I know how that sounds, but there are so really nasty lookin' tits out there.
Mental... Well I like a woman who is definitely independent and can do her own thing, but I am tired of the feminist breed that is totally into proving that it constantly needs to show it can do everything men can do, if only to say they don't need men. Kind of like out of inner anger or rage. That means, I like a woman who actually likes men for what they are. Needs to be intelligent, and outgoing to deal with my brain and my shyness. I read a lot and traveled around the world, so she would have to have those same desires. To seek to learn and want to debate things in jest and laugh about the stupid things, knowing that no matter how serious life gets, we only live once, so there's no need to freak out.
I am Agnostic, kind of searching for meaning in the universe. She could be religious, but skeptical and not a regular church-goer. Girls I dated and talked to would mention how they grew up Catholic or Jewish or Lutheran or whatever, kind of going and losing faith. Some never attended. One's I had problems with were the utterly devout. Because we couldn't bridge the gap. Despite respect for them, I felt no matter how religion brought people together, it ultimately divided them.
I like a woman who is a lover, best friend, and confidante. I mean, it's someone you want to go to the mall with, even if she annoys you at times, because you love talking to her. She has the kind of personality that makes you want to hear what she has to say and offer. I'd like to meet a woman that makes me want to take up some stupid kind of yoga or dance class for the hell of it, just to say I am becoming a better person. Again, the world travelling. Plus hot sex, you know, nice ass that looks good in Victoria's Secret lingerie. I need to be turned on...
