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Originally posted by Rob Kamphausen:
i dont think i've ever been out "girl friend hunting" -- it just sorta happens.

so, i never go to a club or whatever and say "hmm... i wonder if that chick read plato's "the republic'" or "hey, i bet that girl is a huge seinfeld fan"

nope. its all about the looks at first.

i will go to a club or whatever and say "my god, that chick has the sweetest ass" or "damn, her shirt is tight"

i love girls. i loves the way they look. if yer lookin for standards, ill go with small (height and width), very curvy (butt and boobs), longer hair, and, of course, a nice face. other than classifying "hot girl" -- im not too picky after that. i've hooked up with chicks taller than me, with red hair, latina, rich, whatever. i just likes'em to look nice.

but gettin past that...

when im lookin for a girl to actually date repeatedly, i gotta be able to talk to her. and i gotta be able to stand listening to her.

im looking for good personality. someone who can carry their own in a conversation. and, most certainly, someone who loves to laugh and be crazy and have fun.

after that, nothing else really matters that much. i think its stupid to look for a specific type or, even worse, look for someone who is your perfect match. if i dated someone who liked everything i liked, id find the conversations boring after awhile.

i like learning about new and different things. and i like teaching girls about my new and different things. if she's into buddha, id love to hear it as much as id love to show her about batman.

and all my previous girlfriends have been that sorta persona -- they're friends i can hang out with.

and lets not forget the sex or sexual acts. i've got more energy than anyone i know, so its gotta be extremely frequent. and she's gotta be dirty or open minded. i needs me a super freak.
imma stand by this answer.

thats pretty good for me, standing by something i said almost a full year later! it almost makes me sane and/or honest. [woooOOOOoooo!]

i do think there's too much bull shit in the world, with people claiming they're looking for someone's brain. thats impossible! you can't see it!

not in the real world anyway.

thats why internet relationships are so plentiful (and rarely successul upon "the meet"). y'can charm each other all y'want -- personality is huge! certainly the biggest component.

however... its ridiculous to deny physical attraction. whether you're staring at a girl's boobies or simply adoring the way her eyes squint just a little when she's laughing... physicality is key.