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That's not true MEM.....you have no idea how vindictive woman can be in a divorce .......I hope to God you never have to witness someone close to you go through one.



I have. No matter how ugly the divorce most fathers I know still see their kids. Are you saying in your experience it's the other way around?

Rudy's estranged kids & 2nd wife are not acting all revenge filled & poisoned either.No scene was made at the graduation nor have the kids bad mouthed him.

exactly....they haven't bad mouthed him....just people like you. You don't know what happened behind closed doors. The fact that no one is really talking about it shows me that they may be trying to work on things behind the scenes. I am not defending Rudy, I am simply saying there is probably alot more to this than you are willing to admit. You want to make it black and white that he is the villain and that may not be the case.


At the end of the day I don't really give a fuck whether he talks to his kids or not. That is their business not mine.



I think barring some hidden extra-ordinary circumstances Rudy is what he appears to be. 3 marriages & estranged children=loser. IThat's says more about someones character than for example who their dad was IMHO.

Fair play!