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TK-069 said:
A character flaw, as in individual? Nein.

Not when multiple women display the same or similar characteristics. It's an epidemic.



Perhaps. But an all too common charactaristic shared by multiple women is something you can at least talk to other males about. Chances are they've already figured out what to do in some situations, some more effective than others, or at least have some ideas of what they might have done.

For example, your original post. You told us what you were thinking, but what did you say to her? I'd have said:

"Why haven't YOU called ME in two months, one week, six days, and and odd number of hours???"
"Where were you on the rare occasions when I DID call you?"
"Where were you when I needed you the most?"
"News flash, I don't give free samples; it's all or nothing."

Of course I don't know the full story, but what you tell us suggests that she willingly chose to become part of your unchanging and unforgiving past. All had been said and done, she didn't hit the iron while it was still hot, it's that simple. You have no reason to forget all that brought you to the point you're now at on the day she called you.

My point here is that I've known women who have done similar things, so I am able to at least share all this and to hope it helps at least a little.

But then there are those character flaws that are so uncommon with women in general that when you're faced with it, you just don't know what to do about it, and everyone you ask says "Never happened with me before, can't help you." In which case, you just do the best you can.