Ok, I just have to add to this. To make a long story short I dated this dumb chick who ended up being completely fake, deceitful, slutty, etc. Naturally I discovered this, and that she had an abortion, towards the end and after the relationship. She drifted away afterwards then ran away with some guy. Not even a year later she comes back, cause the relationship was over, and dates one of my best friends...which was weird. She uses him and breaks it off for someone else (after two weeks). Several months later she disappears with the same guy she ran away for a year or so ago. She's not seen or heard from (by me) for about a year. She's about $1000 dollars in debt to my best friend right now. Flash forward to now, she's home after breaking up with this guy...again. She calls my buddy saying we should all get together "like old times". Hello...bitch! She's the one that's hurt everyone she's ever known. Including her parents. She's out of my life now, and I couldn't be happier.