If I caught some pansy ass freak raping one of my best friends wife, a lobotomy would be the least of his worries. He would be tied up, upside down, in a very sound proof area and I would torture him. Rape, afterall, is a form of torture, so I'd be glad to return the favour
Keep in mind I would probably do this against against a member of my own family If I caught them raping'n'shit, Im just one of those guys who rights wrongs that the legal system would treat too kindly
So to answer the question, I'd be with Hawkman and Barry, and If I got shit for it like they are now, I'd say "Fuck off Clark you freaky alien pussy, and get off your fucking high Super-horse."