I believe they call this fetching.
Abuse laws are for people who are genuinely scared and she isn't one of them. Being unmarried myself I don't claim to be the marriage expert, but she overcame the divorce rate of the country for 16 years, so whatever "abuse" he did to her she forgave by sharing a room and a bed with him, and probably exchanged some fluids every now and then unless she had a headache.
Now that the marriage is over, she wants to rewrite history in her own little soap opera fantasy version of Oracle of Ages.
And she educates high school students for a living.
What a dumb dumb. Reminds me of an old flame.