God I hate it.
I've had more then my fair share of relationships and with the exception on 1 year out of my near 30, it has not been good.
Do guys look forward to this at all?
Most of the time, in my experince, it is forgotten, or a guy insists we do something then REALLY insists that we have sex. I don't think I'm jaded about it, but I really hate frilly hearts and all that bullshit that people do to get in to your pants. It's like a really bad first date every February.