Honestly, I don't think those of you who are acting oh so cavalier right now are truly ok with what's been said about whomod's daughter. You seem like decent dudes and I appreciate that you back each other up, but there's a time to simply say, "Yeah, that was over the line, douchebag" and then go about your day.
I think what you're searching for here is a standard, or baseline social rule structure that you find on many other boards, and is usually steeped in generic political correctness. You won't find it. The difference here is that the baseline changes from person-to-person. For example, my trigger is when someone starts throwing around '
nigger'. Makes me want to physically slap them into the 21st century. Someone like Uschi is set a bit higher.
Numb to the 'shock'/how raw can you make it' syndrome. However, her opinions and attitudes have every right to post as mine do.
At the RKMBs you don't come here and start with everyone respecting even your basic human rights. Like with every relationship, joke, denial and acceptance you will make-and-break here, it has to be
earned. I don't mean that to sound 'tough', or anything. It's just accurate.
It's all about jokes, ripping on each other in a multitude of degrees, and taking it all zero-percent seriously...