Eh, that sounds like bull shit, no offense.
Is there something in the water over at the Insurgency that causes people to ignore or attempt to deny facts staring them in the face? Why on earth would I possibly lie to to you about this? What could I possibly gain in trying to be considerate, and attempting to explain the mindset here to you? I've been here since 2001. You've been here a couple of days. Tell me, who would know these boards better?

Whether you're on a message board or on the street there's a social contract that everyone has to uphold.
No there isn't. Based on whose rules? From where? Where has this been universally decided?
I understand that Uschi, rex, whoever else, might not consider their statements over the line, but the person their statements were directed toward got offended. And in this world - internet and real alike - when what you say offends someone else, you apologize.
In perfect fantasy world, where no one hates anyone else, and everyone gets along, then sure, I would agree. Unfortunately, in the real world...in reality...people say mean things all the time and no one apologizes. And, that's in the
real world, not even the faceless, voiceless equalizer of cyberspace.
The fact that, were it said to them, they wouldn't have been offended, is irrelevant.
No, it's quite relevant if you are attempting to understand how that mindset operates. Otherwise, you are ignoring facts and attempting to overlay your own personal morality...